As an international student, I expected to face bigger challenges in language and academics, but the real surprise came in the form of everyday interactions. Who knew that personal space, casual greetings and even the size of meals could feel so foreign?
One of the first things I noticed was how friendly people were, but not in the way I was used to back home. In America, small talk seems to be a social expectation. Strangers engage in conversations everywhere regardless of how well they know you. It’s not an in-depth type of conversation but more a form of politeness and acknowledgment.
Food is another major adjustment for international students. While we all miss our traditional meals, it’s not the flavors that are most surprising, it’s the portion sizes and prices. In the U.S., restaurants serve much larger portions, which often comes with a higher price tag. Even at fast food restaurants, a basic meal costs at least $10, which I find outrageous. Back home, I could get a full meal for under $5. Though the portions were smaller, it allowed college students and those with tight budgets to eat out occasionally or grab a quick bite between classes without spending too much.
Personal space is another concept that took some getting used to. In many Spanish-speaking countries, it’s common to greet people you know with a hug or even a kiss on the cheek, whether they’re friends or family. In fact, not doing so can sometimes be seen as disrespectful. However, in the U.S., personal space is valued much more. While Americans can still be warm and friendly, they maintain a physical distance that feels unfamiliar. It became clear that social interactions here don’t always carry the same meaning; they are close in their own way, but the expressions of that closeness are different.
Overall, adapting to life in America has been a challenging experience, filled with moments of confusion, curiosity and growth. The culture shocks I encountered whether in social interactions, food, or music challenged me not only to learn about a new country but also to reflect on my own values and traditions. While the adjustments haven’t always been easy, each culture shock has contributed to my journey of understanding and appreciating the vast differences that make the world so diverse.
